Grief and sadness are always heavy,  -- but harder to bear when the bells are ringing and carolers are singing. When holiday jingles ring out, your hurt is not forgotten. It is faithful to offer your confusion, fear and loss to God in prayer. If you are unsure where to start, here are some ideas. 

•  Begin with a picture of a loved one, whether parted by distance, animosity, or death, and let your prayer-memories pour forth.

• Hold in your hand a symbol of events lost like birthday candles, graduation cards, wedding invitations, even funeral announcements, these are times when loss is most poignant.

• Light scented candles to remind you of a camping trip, favorite holiday recipe, or even a familiar cologne – let the fragrance fill the room with reminders.

• Lift wordless prayers, in the silent groanings of your heart or in loud wailings, even screams, of a raised voice to acknowledge hopes not realized.

If you would like to join others . . .

On Sunday, December 21st, from 7 – 8 p.m., Keokuk Presbyterian Church by the River will host Blue Christmas, an open format service for all who seek comfort during the holy season of Advent. Stations throughout the sanctuary offer prayer prompts and actions of remembrance. You can use the stations or simply sit in the quiet. Stay for a few minutes or the whole hour, as you are led. Pastoral care will be available. The community is invited to worship amid the pain and find solace.